I think a lot of confusion is introduced by what it means to “Alpha up”. It is commonly claimed a guy has to be in (or pass for) a top 20 percenter in terms of male SMV. But that’s often not necessary – standing out in the local crowd is usually sufficient. As you said in #375, “their casual experience is going to be with situational alphas who aren’t actually in the top 20%” So I agree with your description, but am puzzled by its negative tone. Do you feel female mate choice is a bad thing? Because it’s a been basic part of the evolutionary process for, oh, 1.2 billion years or so. 397 Ciaran says: September 4, 2014 at 5:53 pm A woman who doesnt do casual sex and doesnt do casual relationships. Where do we draw the line on casual sex? PIV, blowjob, handjob, touching, kissing, or holding hands? How about casual relationships? The college boyfriend she had that she thought was totally “the one” sophomore year, until he moved away to law school – casual or not? 398 Liz says: September 4, 2014 at 6:00 pm ” Better to be single.” I meant, better to be single than with someone like that. I like being married. :-) [[https://pad.opensenselab.org/s/98WWGbH9I Do Guys Like Cultured Girls?]] [[https://md.eris.cc/s/qqcp2J896I Tips for Dating The ‘Nice Guy’]] [[https://hack.depta.dev/s/VYFNVGD5W How To Convince Your Boyfriend To Wait For Sex?]] [[https://codi.mcloud.digital/s/P34JiEpXoe 5 Ways To Cheer Up Stressed Out Boyfriend (or Husband)]] [[https://codi.cermat.org/s/HkQO-DE1Me 10 Identifiable Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend]] [[https://pad.aleph.world/s/AjNaMlEfW 10 Signs of Breaking up with Boyfriend]] [[https://notes.phys-el.ru/s/iX3-zFr2nc Why Won’t My Boyfriend Make Things Physical?]] [[https://www.magicwall.io/s/B1cXHvNkfe What Should I Get My Boyfriend for His Birthday?]] [[https://hedge.soundar.eu.org/s/OKpcZ87NF Things To Do On Your Boyfriend’s Birthday]] [[https://pad.batsense.net/s/tN1fZmKM4 Why Are Men So Insensitive?]] [[https://pad.ifland.dev/s/Y0lkAzkaZ 5 Subtle Ways How Men Show Their Love]] [[https://pad.hackingfor.eu/s/BFXaG3gRL Tips To Avoid Fighting With Your Boyfriend]] [[https://docs.vaala.cloud/s/OpEXbBrE3z How to Know if a Shy Guy Likes You? Watch Out For These 8 Signs!]] [[https://hedgedoc.mathphys.info/s/md3yTTmzr- 7 Signs Your Boyfriend is Planning to Propose!]] [[https://notes.avdm.nl/s/D5UK_hS5n What Are The Signs That My Boyfriend Is Lying To Me?]] [[https://pad.pythonf.de/s/6zItFpoML How to Show My Boyfriend I Love Him and Care for Him?]] [[https://note.floodfire.tw/s/SyxDD_4yfl How To Say Sorry To Your Boyfriend in a Sweet Way?]] [[https://talkpad.3oe.de/s/PWalM32M3 Five Reasons Why Men Cheat]] [[https://codimd.tyhou12.xyz/s/_R9Nmz8ZN How Do Men Feel About Women Who Are Smarter Than Them?]] [[https://codi.teuber.dev/s/Cjzqwj6nE What Men Think About Rape? Do Men Think Rape is Okay?]] [[https://codi.filler.cc/s/rysmlcN1Gx Why Some Men Don’t Like to Kiss?]] [[https://gcp.mydns.jp/s/981HsdSx8 Are Guys Open About their Feelings with their Girlfriend?]] [[https://codimd.mim-libre.fr/s/S5p19sgcs Why Men Do Not Like Going to the Church?]] [[https://doc.myceliandre.fr/s/zfB1WyeFV Reasons Why Some Young Men are Attracted to Mature Women]] [[https://pad.yuka.dev/s/GjhBleWdps 10 Things You Do That Can Turn Off Your Man]] [[https://md.kolms.eu/s/S1_JdcVkMx How to Tell if My Boyfriend is Missing Me? 6 Signs He Is!]] [[https://hackmd.syndace.dev/s/t9Mfex5yi 10 Signs That a Man is Not Interested in You]] [[https://hedge.debile.co/s/VGXy4psRK 6 Steps to Make a Man Fall in Love With You]]